Finally I'm back!  I was able to retrieve a new password.  The last article I uploaded was last 2 years ago. Hmmmm, we need to catch up on things.  Time seems to run so fast.  Things change sometimes you don't even notice it.  The issue is how you are going to accept changes happening in your life.  Drastic or not we have no choice but to accept and live with it.  How do you define drastic?  What are the boundaries and to what extent are you going to say that such change is drastic.  Let me give you an example.  My sudden assignment in Cebu is so drastic!  No dialogue between me and the management on why and how I was chosen to be assigned in the vacant territory.  I know there are unexplained things UFO, spirits, life after death but I bet this has an explanation.  Firstly, I don't speak in Bisaya. Secondly, I don't have friends and relatives in Cebu and thirdly, I grew up in the city and living in Cebu is a very big adjustment for me.  In short, I don't see any reason for them to assign me that far.  Unless they had a word with me prior the assignment then I won't retaliate this way.  They took away my life and family from me.  Crucial part is hearing mass on a Sunday alone.  I don't know when I am going to surpass all of this but I won't last.  Why continue a job that you're not happy with.  Life is too short better spend it with your loved ones.  I'm 26 and in a few years time I'll leave my parents behind and put up a family of my own.  But right now, there's nothing I want but to spend my remaining single years with my parents brother and sisters.....  That's how much I value my family.  I'll give up this career no doubts about it.  I have all the reason there is for me to say that I give up.  Soon this will all be over.  I've worked my butts off for this job.  Never was I a disappointment to my District Manager.  There is nothing else I want but to be an asset in whatever line they put me in.  But this is what I get.  Yes, life is too unfair.  As long as they don't listen to the sentiments of their employees then they will lose good people.  More than 8 resignations filed to them in a year? and still counting.  Unless they do something about this.  For me, there's a lot of road waiting ahead.  But whichever road I take I'll always look back and say the experience was worth it for me to realize other opportunities waiting for me.